PrinceLabuta @ Sep 10 2005, 10:06 AM wrote: this may sound very wierd, but the only answer to your question doubtless is to be honest with yourself.
tell the twin of the girl you like that there is something you see in her twin that you don't see in her (i wonder how identical twins will react to this phrase).
as for the father question, well if it were me, I'd shower the girl with "expensive gifts" then the father could'nt say anything bad yet. he would think, "hey, my daughter has a handsome, responsible, inteligent, and RICH suitor, why should i be stopping him? all i want is what is best for my daughter."
believe me, that ploy worked. thats how i got the approval of Jeae's dad. at first he was freakin out, his daughter marrying a japanese and all that worthles sh_t. then he saw that i am a responsible man. he just gave way! Hurrah!
quote, I "accidently" told the opposite twin the " I wub you" statement
not knowing the fact that the other twin would have been a much better suitor
so yea, cross Theory 1 out of what you said
quote 2, I am poorer than dirt in Iraq, and this girl hates material gifts
cross Theory 2 out
quote 3, to be very honest, I'm not perfect nor am I as responsible as most people, but only in desperate cases will I find the best and fastest way to solve something
cross Theory 3 out
quote 4, I need permission if ever I was to go any further, he's not stopping me for anything, nor will he want to
cross your "Why should I be stopping him" out
all in all, I actually plan things ahead about 4 steps, and if needed up to 20 or more
so basically if anything you're advice would have been useful for YOUR case but not mine
if you want me to map this out, then I'll do it later
thanks for your input though
